How many of us are living life with grateful attitude? Are you one of those…?(Part 1)
I believe you have heard the word “CHANGE” from someone, somewhere, somehow or you are murmuring the word in your head when something you did went bizarre, or your inner-self kept telling you that you have to be a better person after having been in a big storm in life! I personally put “CHANGE” in my mind as my first solution weapon when I felt I did something horrible.
Life is a series of metamorphosis
I would take you back into my life when I was a happy and passionate single woman. Living my life away from my family since 15-years-old had made me to learn to live life from the street (famously people said “Street Smart). I know since I was kid that I want to live life at the fullest. I believe that success is when good decision was made at a golden opportunity.
I am very self conscious I know my dark side and there are many, let’s counting from being really stubborn, self-centered, over confidence, very ambitious, want to have it all, last but not least, I complain about almost everything in my day to day activities. Can you believe it? However, with this stuck up attitude my career has grown faster compare to others co-worker amongst my age group or even older than me. This career success mean I got higher paycheck, more power which enables me enjoys life at the fullest. Not too mentioned I have wonderful friends around me who I spent almost everything in daily life and of course there were never boring weekend. But, sadly, I am still the old me who is unlikely to feel grateful just yet.
At night secretly I cried and I keep asking myself “What I did miss?” Somehow, one expected night I realized I miss my family means my relationship with Mum, Dad, Grandmother, Brother & Sister or distance cousin seem to be so far away from my grip. I hardly recognize each of their characters; I realized that something needs to be “CHANGED” in me. I only familiar with the word “CHANGE” but not 100% understand of how to use it or whether I am in the changing stage.
Daddy Girl and toughest decision
You can call me a “Daddy Girl” because since I was born I am his little angel and we both were very attached to one another till I was 15 (I used “were”
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Uncategorized | Comment (0)Get Hook with blog’s writing…..
Surely….I get hooked with blog’s writing at this moment, my latest update can be found at www.mellychendrainy.blogspot.com.
So, I will be learning to write better and sharing my life with friends….by blog’s writing.
Uncategorized | Comment (0)Human’s heart is as deep as the ocean….I believe
Every morning when we wake up is actually a miracle therefore it is important that we have to embrace this life with full of hope, gratefulness and enjoy every minute of it. Fill any given day with a meaningful moment for ourselves and others’ as well.
I always believe that wherever I am, I have a special mission. I have to inspire people around me in a positive way. At the moment, I am trying so hard to figure out the human’s heart (I am not a doctor or a scientist, so of course, I am not talking about the human anatomy).
Recently, I am in the situation of living my life in a new place where most people are pretending to live their life based on what others expect them to live. Yeah, I know you must be thinking, oh how’s sad, isn’t it? However, I do have faith that some are not living in such in a way.
So, 
for all of my friends out there, I want to tell you that all of us including me, we are the luckiest and blessed human on earth. Now, everything seem to make senses to me and each day I even want to thanks God for showing me others’ life which are totally the opposite from mine and my friends. There is a saying "you will only can taste sweet better when you have had bitterness".
I am so glad that I have friends, relatives and mentors from all walk of life whom always honest towards me. Whenever I made mistakes, taking the wrong direction, making bad decision, saying harsh and hurtful words that might caused damaged in my life and others, those peoples will keep an eye on me to make sure I don’t fall but keep growing and blossom each day. Likewise, I will give advise as well to others when I know that this piece of advise might do good for my friends or sometimes, I was being asked for advise.
I do not know how to share this here but I guess, all I have to do is keep on writing.
At the moment, I live in a situation where is the opposite way of all the above mentioned. That’s why, at the end of the day I believe that human’s heart is as deep as the ocean. Some people will never ever tell you the truth from their heart, they will just let you fall, never want to give you advise but wait, they themselves do not expect you to give them any advises as well….hah, so how’s individual that can be.
I do know that no one likes people who gossip about others or care unneccessarily about things that are not important but warning someone you love that she is not going into the right direction, I guess is a responsibility. Trust me, for us who live in the lane of positive root will find amazingly shocking in here. I know you must be thinking, what’s kind of place I live in right now.
I am thinking again, do we have to tell our love ones when he/she is in a dangerous situation? I don’t know in here but for sure I know that in where the place I used to live I will try carefully to tell that someone….it is all because of the name of love and care. But, will it be appreciated in here? I don’t know but I know that when you are in Rome, you do like the romans do. I do not agree with it but I have to temporarily live with it now but not for long because I know it is not right to let your love one fall over to the cliff.
I mentioned earlier that I always have purpose in my life wherever I am. So, it is so obvious that there are many souls that are needed to be heal and touched….a broken soul I mean. Amazingly, just merely few months, some secrets reveal itself to me. I am smiling when I am writing this because I just can’t believe that I am surrounded by people with heart’s that as deep as the ocean. There must be something that needed me to do otherwise the secret would not have leaked out to my life.
So, I did a little investigation, in my surprise playing safe is the right word to describe this situation. So, should I let this situation go with the flow? No, of course not.
Confrontation has been made and the situation is slowly showing the color of rainbow and I believe that only time will tell the truth. The moment we wake up, it is our calling to make this world a better place and hoping that sun shine is all around us.
That on
e fine day seems to be so long and far away but actually it is not when we have faith and keep inspiring others. From my heart I know that at the soonest possible time ever, everythig will turn out to be one fine day.
This writing is not meant to hurt anyone but to motivate others to tell the truth and to love others as much as we love ourselves. Sometimes silence does kill a good heart so speak up when you have to keep the soul blossom. Always believe that when you are saying the right thing and words to someone, you actually have safe one soul I believe.
Human’s heart is as deep as the ocean can be. I feel so much better in pouring out this here so I will keep loving and advising in my entire life.
How’s about you?
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Living In Manado, make this city as a gold or even diamond mining city………….
For almost 17 years I have lived my life where human being
can move forward faster than a train, where friends are new form of new found family in my life….they are beautiful-minded people. They are always positive, lifted me up whenever I need, a shoulder to cry on, allowing me to be me ……So, I have grown into such a confident soul.
Million of thankful words have been said, presents have been given, sharing time in sorrow to show we care, giving words of encoragement has been said. They will be endless of things could be done to show we care. However, it is up to each individual of saying "Thank you" to others. They are no rules in this.
Upsss…..back to topic which is actually linkage to my trailer above, living in Manado, I am not going to talk about the mouth watering food offers, the beautiful bunaken underwater-world but I want to share the life as newcomer Manadonese…of how I live my new life in this seafood paradise city which I love so much.
Living in Manado, never thought that it will be this way, at first I thought that It would be very hard to adjust my fast moving lifestyle for 17 years then adapting with something so slow. That is why 4 months …..it seems like 10 years, i live in such a layback life in here.
I would say it is nice to be able to have proper breakfast every morning, festive lunch, and dinner, the most amazing thing is never alone….but with my new family. Say, I am lucky to have such an easy life. Do not ask my weight it’s scary answer.
It has now come down to new culture, new friends, new rules, everything seems foreign to me, I means involve with the Manadonese lived their life and concurrently potraying my own life as well. Some of you who might heard about manadonese, some are not. I myself surprisingly, each day i find out that people is still very much conservative in their mind set and yet yearning to have a freedom in life, who don’t anyway?
I lied if I said I am adapting amazingly well in here, after the wedding I missed my beautiful-mind friends and family like I ever imagine before. It is not about which city or country I lived but the people surround me. The blue sky above turned out to be so greyish, everything seem vividly dull. Crying has become my routine daily activity. No more sunday church (I refuse to attend), I am a sensitive person but it has worsen each day, GOD seems so far away. Living life here is tough not just hard.
Someone told me that If I am weak in facing life than the life will be very tough toward me. Somehow, I know for a very long time that I have a living GOD who loves me too much. He has sent many angels not just ONE to me.
Here is one of the angels, 
I read one particular blog in friendster which written by Anne (Friend’s of my hubby even though I don’t know her very well yet) whom I believe fall into the category of beautiful-mind people, she wrote some things there that touched my soul. Then, I spoke to her on the phone, not very long but brief enough for me to change my mindset of living my life in Manado in the fullest. Like she has written in my friendster’s comment by Anne (Please do read if only you feel like it). Thanks Anne (This is Anne in the picture in black shirt)
One most important beautiful-mind 
"The Man I loved" my husband who never give up in giving me motivation, lift up my soul each day, love and care for me that I never had before. He never stops praying.
No more crying, devastating feeling and mood, I have never been happier to be able to climbing up with my other phase of life right now, amazing husband, new start up boutique I have been dreaming of, family, friends, foods, countless of meaningful time, I can do a lot of things which I never thought I could.
Life is so blessed by these people, good friends who I could not mentioned one by one but I hope you all know that I love you. The life we have shared are wonderful so let’s continue to create beautiful stories for each other life. Even though, I have to lived my new life in new city but like song I still love the old song….it is just different on its own way and also like some new song as it has its own vibe as well; just like my new life. Some friends are in this pictures, but there are still many that are well-kept in my heart only HE knows.
I love my life of all phases, the past, the present because I know HE never in a second leaves me alone, HE is the almighty who always there to heal my broken heart so it will enable to love again. I never try to be religious but I know that living a life without GOD will be to empty for me but this is my very personal feeling. Some others might be different…it has never been right or wrong when it comes to GOD; it is how it can make your life meaningful and had purposes.
Life is beautiful…..when you have faith in yourself and in HIM.
Life | Comments (3)
Your emotion and mine
Being happy is a decision and choice, it is an emotion, feeling, attitude, response when he or she had a wonderful moment which can be varied from one person to another.
Today, I decided to make my choice, I want to be happy every second of the day. For someone likes me is not an easy thing to sit back and relax when I am really working on a project, even I am not doing one. Grumpy and long faces, being too sensitive, worrying too much, complaining every details, agitated, well i have long lists which i realize that i have just ruined every second of my life.
However, I was inspired by a book who is written by a good friend of mine, this amazing friend is Stefanus Indrayana whom is also the Marketing Director for PT Samsung Electronics Indonesia; with book title Best Life (This little book works wonder on me and my life, this book is a wedding gift from him to me, the best gifts ever).
Let’s be happy as I believe all of us are blessed by His Love and Glory, Life is beautiful when we choose to perceive life as it is, good or bad are a process of getting through the day. Change ourself and the changes from others will eventually happen. So today, let’s share our joy, happiness and love to everyone.
We are human, we make mistakes, the next steps we plead for forgiveness and forgive others. Mistakes are a past it’s meant to be forgiven and let’s live for the present moment.
Love yourself, love this life, love God, believe me the whole universe will sense the vibe and love you back.
Happy messange from Manado….muach muach 